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The Saboteur Within
You wouldn’t let anyone interrupt your stride. You protect your calendar. You defend your standards. You outpace doubt with action. But what happens when the block isn’t outside you? What happens when the killer of your progress is you — not the loud, dramatic version, but the quiet, clever part that knows exactly how to slow you down without detection? That’s your inner saboteur. And every high-performer has one.
Ethan Starke
Sep 22, 20253 min read


The Overcommitment Trap
Every high performer knows this lie: “I can handle it. ”It’s not arrogance. It’s instinct. You’ve built your career — your reputation — on being reliable, fast, excellent. You make things happen. You rise to the occasion. But that’s the trap. Because eventually, “I can handle it” becomes a reflex. You say yes before you think. You stretch before you assess. You commit before you calculate. And then momentum stalls — because you’ve distributed your energy so thinly that nothin
Ethan Starke
Sep 15, 20252 min read


Standards vs. Sabotage
High performers don’t settle. They raise the bar. They set the tone. They demand more from themselves than anyone else would dare ask. And that’s often the problem. Because at some point, the line between excellence and self-sabotage blurs. What started as a high standard turns into a quiet war against yourself. You’re no longer driven — you’re haunted. You don’t feel motivated — you feel behind. You’re not sharpening — you’re unraveling.
Ethan Starke
Sep 8, 20253 min read


The Invisible Workload
This is the exhaustion that doesn’t show up in your schedule. It’s the fatigue of invisible work — the unseen demands that drain your energy before your real work even begins. It’s the decisions you’re constantly making. The expectations you’re silently carrying. The unspoken roles you’re always performing. In high performers, this kind of weight doesn’t look like chaos. It looks like control. But that control is expensive — and eventually, it comes at the cost of your clarit
Ethan Starke
Sep 1, 20253 min read
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